You will learn
- Say what respect is.
- Use polite words.
- Listen carefully.
- Respect differences and space.
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Student lesson
- Respect means care for people and things.
- Polite words show respect.
- We listen when others speak.
- We respect differences and personal space.
Words to know
treating people and things with care
showing good manners
to pay attention with your ears
the area around your body
1. Discover: The new boy
A new boy, Carlos, joins the class. He speaks Spanish at home. Fatmata says, “Welcome. Would you like to play?” Abu teaches him a game. Carlos teaches them one Spanish word: “gracias.” It means “thank you.” Everyone smiles.
Think: How did the children show respect?
2. Understand: Respect
Idea 1: What is respect?
Respect is treating people, animals and things with care. We show respect by being polite, listening, taking care of others’ things and welcoming people who are different.
Idea 2: Polite words
Words such as please, thank you, excuse me, sorry and good morning show respect. We use a kind voice and look at the person who speaks.
Idea 3: Space and differences
Everyone has personal space. We do not touch others if they do not want it. We say, “No, thank you” kindly. We respect differences in language, clothing, food and beliefs.
3. Worked examples
Example 1 (I show you): Polite words
Say a polite word.
- Think.
- Say.
- Smile.
Answer: Thank you.
Example 2 (We do it together): Listen
Listen to a friend.
- Look.
- Be quiet.
- Show you heard.
Answer: I repeat what I heard.
Example 3 (You try): Say no kindly
Someone is too close.
Show the steps and answer
- Stay calm.
- Say, No thank you.
- Step back.
Answer: No thank you, please give me space.
Did you know?
People greet each other differently around the world: with a bow in Japan, a handshake in many countries, and a long greeting in Sierra Leone, such as asking about family and health.
Why this matters
Respect makes every person feel safe and welcome.
4. Explore: Respect cards
Make cards with polite words and a picture for each. Use them in a role-play of meeting a new friend.
- Draw words.
- Practise.
- Role-play.
- Share.
Think about it: what did you notice?
What did you notice? Polite words make others happy.
5. Practise
Say it in a sentence
Use these starters when you talk about the lesson. Say them out loud.
- Respect means ___.
- A polite word is ___.
- I listen with ___.
- Personal space is ___.
Guided practice
Question 1. What is respect?
Care for others.
Question 2. Name a polite word.
Please.
Question 3. What do we listen with?
Ears.
Independent practice
Level 1: Start
- What is respect?
- Name a polite word.
- What do we listen with?
- What is personal space?
- Say a kind no.
Level 2: Grow
- Why use polite words?
- Why respect differences?
- Why listen?
Level 3: Stretch
- Make respect cards.
- Role-play a welcome.
- Tell a friend one polite word.
Answers are in the answer key below. Try first, then check.
6. Apply: Social Studies in everyday life
A new child sits alone. What can you do?
Show a sample answer
Welcome them.
Another one. Greet three people politely.
Show a sample answer
Share.
7. Common mistakes
Fix: Everyone deserves respect.
Fix: We respect differences.
8. Lesson summary and revision card
- I can say what respect is.
- I can use polite words.
- I can listen carefully.
- I can respect differences and space.
9. Check and master
Answer all 14 questions. You will see feedback after each one.
Your result appears here after you answer every question.
10. Key takeaways
- Respect means care for people and things.
- Polite words show respect.
- We listen when others speak.
- We respect differences and personal space.
11. Next lesson
Next lesson: Making good choices. Keep going with the next idea in this course.
Exam practice
These questions are written in the style of common school and international primary assessments. Try them on your own, without looking back. Then check your answers in the marking guide. The marks are shown in brackets.
- What is respect? [2 marks]
- Name two polite words and when to use them. [3 marks]
- Say how to welcome a new child. [3 marks]
- What is personal space? [2 marks]
Total: 10 marks.
Marking guide and model answers
- Meaning [1]; example [1]
- Words [2]; when [1]
- Greet [1]; invite [1]; kind [1]
- Meaning [1]; example [1]
Score guide: 9 to 10 = secure. 6 to 8 = nearly there, revise the parts you missed. Under 6 = work through the lesson again with a grown-up.
Printable worksheet
- What is respect?
- Name a polite word.
- What do we listen with?
- What is personal space?
- Say a kind no.
- Why use polite words?
- Why respect differences?
- Why listen?
- Make respect cards.
- Role-play a welcome.
Homework
Greet three people politely and say what happened.
Answer key and marking scheme
| Question | Expected response | Marks |
|---|---|---|
| 1. What is respect? | Care for others. | 1 |
| 2. Name a polite word. | Please. | 1 |
| 3. What do we listen with? | Ears. | 1 |
| 4. What is personal space? | Area around us. | 1 |
| 5. Say a kind no. | No thank you. | 1 |
| 6. Why use polite words? | Kindness. | 1 |
| 7. Why respect differences? | Everyone matters. | 1 |
| 8. Why listen? | To understand. | 1 |
| 9. Make respect cards. | Cards. | 1 |
| 10. Role-play a welcome. | Act. | 1 |
| Total | 10 |
Independent practice answers. Level 1: 1 Care for others.; 2 Please.; 3 Ears.; 4 Area around us.; 5 No thank you.. Level 2: 1 Kindness.; 2 Everyone matters.; 3 To understand.. Level 3: 1 Cards.; 2 Act.; 3 Sentence..
Quiz answers: 1 B, 2 C, 3 A, 4 B, 5 C, 6 A, 7 B, 8 C, 9 A, 10 B, 11 C, 12 A, Challenge 1 B, Challenge 2 C.
Mastery and remediation
| Objective | Bronze (Developing) | Silver (Proficient) | Gold (Advanced) |
|---|---|---|---|
| O1 Say what respect is | Shows this with help from an adult or a picture | Does this independently and explains how they know | Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation |
| O2 Use polite words | Shows this with help from an adult or a picture | Does this independently and explains how they know | Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation |
| O3 Listen carefully | Shows this with help from an adult or a picture | Does this independently and explains how they know | Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation |
| O4 Respect differences and space | Shows this with help from an adult or a picture | Does this independently and explains how they know | Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation |
Courseversity badge thresholds (overall quiz score): Gold = 90–100%; Silver = 80–89.9%; Bronze = 70–79.9%. A badge is never a full record of progress.
If a learner struggles
- Find the misconception: “Respect is only for adults.” Everyone deserves respect.
- Explain another way: use real objects, pictures or actions first, then words.
- Show a simpler example: Role-play meeting a new friend with toys. Use polite words.
- Guided practice: work through one example together and let the learner try the next one.
- Reassess: use the quiz again or the worksheet.
- Move on when the learner shows Silver-level evidence independently.
For parents and guardians
In this lesson your child learns about respect. Please model polite words and listening. You do not need to be an expert to help.
- Use polite words yourself.
- Listen well.
- Teach that your child can say no kindly.
- Ask “how do you know?” after each answer, and listen.
- Praise effort, not only right answers. Mistakes are how we learn.
- Ten to fifteen minutes a day is better than one long session.
Teacher package
1–5. Objectives, prerequisites, materials, preparation, duration
Lesson objectives. Learners will: say what respect is; use polite words; listen carefully; respect differences and space.
Prerequisite knowledge. Grade 1 ideas: rules, fairness and respect.
Materials. Paper, crayons. Low-resource options: use chalk or charcoal on a board or wall, drawings in the sand, and objects from the classroom instead of printed materials.
Preparation. Prepare polite word cards.
Suggested duration. 45–60 minutes. It can be split into two shorter sessions.
6–9. Teaching procedure, explanation notes, guided and independent activities
Introduction (5 min). Tell the new boy story.
Explanation (10 min). Teach respect.
Guided activity (10 min). Make cards.
Independent activity (10 min). Role-play.
Assessment and reflection (5 min). Ask each learner to say one thing they learned and how they know it.
Key questions. What is respect? How do we show it?
Teacher explanation notes. Start with a picture, story, map or local example. Then talk about what was seen, then draw and write. Always ask “how do you know?” and invite more than one view. Treat every family, culture and community with respect, and never ask learners to share private information.
10–12. Differentiation, formative assessment, common misconceptions
Support. Use pictures, maps, real objects and short sentences, and let learners work with a partner. Let learners point, show, act or draw instead of writing. Extension. Ask learners to find a new example from their own community and explain how they know.
Formative assessment. Listen to learners read and explain, ask “how do you know?”, and check the independent work.
Misconceptions. “Respect is only for adults.” Everyone deserves respect.
13–15. Assessment questions, answer keys, marking scheme
Use the quiz, the 10-mark exam practice and the worksheet on this page. All answers and marking guides are in the answer sections above. Re-check every answer before use.
16–19. Remediation, enrichment, homework, teacher reflection
Remediation. Role-play meeting a new friend with toys. Use polite words. Enrichment. Find one new example near your home or school, draw or write about it and explain it to someone. Homework. See above.
Teacher reflection. After teaching, record: which ideas learners understood; which misconceptions occurred; which activities worked; which learners need more practice; and what to improve next time.
Sources and standards
This lesson is based on the sources below, and no official endorsement is claimed. Reference starting points: NCSS standards and C3 Framework, Cambridge Primary Humanities and the IB Primary Years Programme. Where a standard code is named, it points to the official framework.
Research used to shape this lesson. Courseversity Social Studies curriculum, Grade 1 Unit 5, topic 7; NCSS C3 Framework, civic and political institutions; Cambridge Primary Humanities, people and societies; IB Primary Years Programme, how we organise ourselves. These sources informed the lesson.