You will learn

  • Name different family groups.
  • Say that care matters most.
  • Respect all families.
  • Ask kind questions.

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Student lesson

The lesson in 60 seconds

  1. Families are made in many ways.
  2. Care matters more than the shape.
  3. We respect every family.
  4. We ask kind questions.

Words to know

carer
a person who looks after a child
grandparent
a parent’s mother or father
sibling
a brother or sister
extended family
aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents

1. Discover: Three homes

Ms Johnson reads about three children. Isatu lives with her mother and her grandfather. Mohamed lives with his aunt, uncle and cousins. Amara lives with her foster carers. “They all have families,” says Ms Johnson. “They all have people who care.”

Think: What is the same in all three homes?

2. Understand: Family shapes

Idea 1: Many shapes

Some children live with one parent. Some live with two. Some live with grandparents, aunts, uncles or older siblings. Some live with step-parents, foster carers or adoptive parents. Some families share a home with the extended family.

Idea 2: Care matters

A good family gives love, food, safety and help to learn. Anyone who does this is a carer. Families are different, but caring is the same.

Idea 3: Respect

We never say a family is wrong or strange. If we are curious, we ask kind questions such as “Who do you live with?”, and we accept the answer.

Remember: Families are made in many ways, and caring matters most.

3. Worked examples

Example 1 (I show you): Match

Match the family to the home.

  1. Read each story.
  2. Find who cares.
  3. Say the family.

Answer: Isatu lives with her mother and grandfather.

Example 2 (We do it together): Say what is the same

Find a common thing.

  1. Compare two homes.
  2. Look for care.
  3. Say the same.

Answer: Both have people who love the child.

Example 3 (You try): Ask kindly

Ask a kind question.

Show the steps and answer
  1. Smile.
  2. Ask Who do you live with?
  3. Listen.

Answer: Thank you for telling me.

Did you know?

In many countries, more than two generations share one home, and aunts and uncles are often like second parents.

Why this matters

When we respect all families, every child feels safe to be themselves.

4. Explore: Family sorting

Cut out pictures of different family groups. Glue them on a big paper called Our Families. Add the words Love and Care in the middle.

  1. Look at the pictures.
  2. Glue them.
  3. Write Love and Care.
  4. Share the poster.
Think about it: what did you notice?

What did you notice? The families looked different, and all had care.

Safety first: Use only pictures that are kind and general. Do not single out any child. Follow your school’s policy on how families are discussed. If a child shares something worrying, tell the school’s safeguarding lead.

5. Practise

Say it in a sentence

Use these starters when you talk about the lesson. Say them out loud.

  • Some children live with ___.
  • A carer is ___.
  • All families need ___.
  • We respect families by ___.

Guided practice

Question 1. Name a person a child can live with.

Parent or grandparent.

Question 2. What is a sibling?

Brother or sister.

Question 3. What is a carer?

A person who looks after a child.

Independent practice

Level 1: Start

  1. Name a person a child can live with.
  2. What is a sibling?
  3. What is a carer?
  4. What is extended family?
  5. What matters most?

Level 2: Grow

  1. Why do we not say a family is strange?
  2. What is the same in all families?
  3. How can we ask kindly?

Level 3: Stretch

  1. Make a poster of families.
  2. Say one thing you like about families.
  3. Tell a friend why all families matter.

Answers are in the answer key below. Try first, then check.

6. Apply: Social Studies in everyday life

A new child lives with an uncle. What can you say?

Show a sample answer

I am glad you are in our class.

Another one. Thank a carer for something they do.

Show a sample answer

Thank you for …

7. Common mistakes

Mistake: “Only one kind of family is right.”
Fix: Families are made in many ways.
Another mistake: “A child with no parents has no family.”
Fix: They may have carers who love them.

8. Lesson summary and revision card

I can…

  • I can name different family groups.
  • I can say that care matters most.
  • I can respect all families.
  • I can ask kind questions.

9. Check and master

Answer all 14 questions. You will see feedback after each one.

1. Some children live with their …

2. A sibling is a brother or …

3. A carer looks after a …

4. Extended family includes …

5. What matters most in a family?

6. We never say a family is …

7. A kind question is “Who do you live …”

8. If a child shares something worrying we tell a …

9. Some children live with foster …

10. All families need …

11. Families are made in many …

12. We accept the … when a child answers

Challenge 1. Which shows respect?

Challenge 2. A family is shaped by …

Your result appears here after you answer every question.

10. Key takeaways

  • Families are made in many ways.
  • Care matters more than the shape.
  • We respect every family.
  • We ask kind questions.

11. Next lesson

Next lesson: Family members and caregivers. Keep going with the next idea in this course.

Exam practice

These questions are written in the style of common school and international primary assessments. Try them on your own, without looking back. Then check your answers in the marking guide. The marks are shown in brackets.

  1. Name two people a child may live with. [2 marks]
  2. Say what is the same in all families. [3 marks]
  3. How do we show respect to all families? [3 marks]
  4. What is a carer? [2 marks]

Total: 10 marks.

Marking guide and model answers
  1. One each
  2. Care [1]; love [1]; clear [1]
  3. Kind words [1]; no teasing [1]; ask kindly [1]
  4. Person [1]; looks after a child [1]

Score guide: 9 to 10 = secure. 6 to 8 = nearly there, revise the parts you missed. Under 6 = work through the lesson again with a grown-up.

Printable worksheet

  1. Name a person a child can live with.
  2. What is a sibling?
  3. What is a carer?
  4. What is extended family?
  5. What matters most?
  6. Why do we not say a family is strange?
  7. What is the same in all families?
  8. How can we ask kindly?
  9. Make a poster of families.
  10. Say one thing you like about families.

Homework

Tell someone at home why every family matters.

Answer key and marking scheme

Question Expected response Marks
1. Name a person a child can live with. Parent or grandparent. 1
2. What is a sibling? Brother or sister. 1
3. What is a carer? A person who looks after a child. 1
4. What is extended family? Aunts, uncles, cousins. 1
5. What matters most? Care. 1
6. Why do we not say a family is strange? It is unkind. 1
7. What is the same in all families? Care. 1
8. How can we ask kindly? Who do you live with? 1
9. Make a poster of families. Poster. 1
10. Say one thing you like about families. Sentence. 1
Total 10

Independent practice answers. Level 1: 1 Parent or grandparent.; 2 Brother or sister.; 3 A person who looks after a child.; 4 Aunts, uncles, cousins.; 5 Care.. Level 2: 1 It is unkind.; 2 Care.; 3 Who do you live with?. Level 3: 1 Poster.; 2 Sentence.; 3 Sentence..

Quiz answers: 1 B, 2 C, 3 A, 4 B, 5 C, 6 A, 7 B, 8 C, 9 A, 10 B, 11 C, 12 A, Challenge 1 B, Challenge 2 C.

Mastery and remediation

Objective Bronze (Developing) Silver (Proficient) Gold (Advanced)
O1 Name different family groups Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O2 Say that care matters most Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O3 Respect all families Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O4 Ask kind questions Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation

Courseversity badge thresholds (overall quiz score): Gold = 90–100%; Silver = 80–89.9%; Bronze = 70–79.9%. A badge is never a full record of progress.

If a learner struggles

  1. Find the misconception: “Only one kind of family is right.” Families are made in many ways.
  2. Explain another way: use real objects, pictures or actions first, then words.
  3. Show a simpler example: Use three simple family pictures. Ask, “Who cares for the child here?” each time.
  4. Guided practice: work through one example together and let the learner try the next one.
  5. Reassess: use the quiz again or the worksheet.
  6. Move on when the learner shows Silver-level evidence independently.

For parents and guardians

In this lesson your child learns that families are made in many ways and that care matters most. Please follow your own family values while teaching respect for others. You do not need to be an expert to help.

  • Talk about families you know.
  • Say that care matters most.
  • Answer questions honestly and kindly.
  • Ask “how do you know?” after each answer, and listen.
  • Praise effort, not only right answers. Mistakes are how we learn.
  • Ten to fifteen minutes a day is better than one long session.

Teacher package

1–5. Objectives, prerequisites, materials, preparation, duration

Lesson objectives. Learners will: name different family groups; say that care matters most; respect all families; ask kind questions.

Prerequisite knowledge. Grade 1 ideas: I am special, I have a name and I can describe myself.

Materials. Pictures, glue, paper. Low-resource options: use chalk or charcoal on a board or wall, drawings in the sand, and objects from the classroom instead of printed materials.

Preparation. Choose general pictures.

Suggested duration. 45–60 minutes. It can be split into two shorter sessions.

6–9. Teaching procedure, explanation notes, guided and independent activities

Introduction (5 min). Read the three-homes story and ask, “What is the same?”

Explanation (10 min). Teach family shapes.

Guided activity (10 min). Learners make posters.

Independent activity (10 min). Learners share kindly.

Assessment and reflection (5 min). Ask each learner to say one thing they learned and how they know it.

Key questions. What do all families share? How do we respect them?

Teacher explanation notes. Start with a picture, story, map or local example. Then talk about what was seen, then draw and write. Always ask “how do you know?” and invite more than one view. Treat every family, culture and community with respect, and never ask learners to share private information.

10–12. Differentiation, formative assessment, common misconceptions

Support. Use pictures, maps, real objects and short sentences, and let learners work with a partner. Let learners point, show, act or draw instead of writing. Extension. Ask learners to find a new example from their own community and explain how they know.

Formative assessment. Listen to learners read and explain, ask “how do you know?”, and check the independent work.

Misconceptions. “Only one kind of family is right.” Families are made in many ways.

13–15. Assessment questions, answer keys, marking scheme

Use the quiz, the 10-mark exam practice and the worksheet on this page. All answers and marking guides are in the answer sections above. Re-check every answer before use.

16–19. Remediation, enrichment, homework, teacher reflection

Remediation. Use three simple family pictures. Ask, “Who cares for the child here?” each time. Enrichment. Find one new example near your home or school, draw or write about it and explain it to someone. Homework. See above.

Teacher reflection. After teaching, record: which ideas learners understood; which misconceptions occurred; which activities worked; which learners need more practice; and what to improve next time.

Sources and standards

This lesson is based on the sources below, and no official endorsement is claimed. Reference starting points: NCSS standards and C3 Framework, Cambridge Primary Humanities and the IB Primary Years Programme. Where a standard code is named, it points to the official framework.

Research used to shape this lesson. Courseversity Social Studies curriculum, Grade 1 Unit 2, topic 2; NCSS C3 Framework, individuals and groups; Cambridge Primary Humanities, people; IB Primary Years Programme, who we are. These sources informed the lesson.

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