My feelings and emotions

Primary EducationGrade 1Social StudiesCV-PRI-G01-SOC-U01-L0545–60 min

You will learn

  • Name feelings.
  • Show feelings safely.
  • Say that all feelings are normal.
  • Ask a trusted adult for help.

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Student lesson

The lesson in 60 seconds

  1. We have feelings.
  2. All feelings are normal.
  3. I can show feelings in safe ways.
  4. I can talk to a trusted adult.

Words to know

feeling
how you feel inside
emotion
a strong feeling such as joy or anger
calm
quiet and peaceful
trusted adult
a grown-up who keeps you safe

1. Discover: The feelings faces

Ms Conteh shows five faces on cards: happy, sad, angry, scared and excited. “Point to the face that matches how you feel today,” she says. Isatu points to excited because her mother is coming to school. Sorie points to sad because his friend is away.

Think: Which face matches you today?

2. Understand: Feelings

Idea 1: Naming feelings

A feeling is what you feel inside. Happy, sad, angry, scared and excited are common feelings. Strong feelings are called emotions.

Idea 2: All feelings are normal

Every person has feelings, and none of them are wrong. What matters is what we do when we have a feeling. We do not hurt anyone.

Idea 3: Safe ways

We can take slow breaths to feel calm, draw, say how we feel with words, or ask for a hug. If a feeling is too big, we tell a trusted adult.

Remember: All feelings are normal. I can show them safely and ask for help.

3. Worked examples

Example 1 (I show you): Name the feeling

Look at a face.

  1. Look at the eyes.
  2. Look at the mouth.
  3. Say the feeling.

Answer: The face is happy.

Example 2 (We do it together): Say how I feel

Use a sentence.

  1. Think about your body.
  2. Choose a word.
  3. Say “I feel …”

Answer: I feel excited.

Example 3 (You try): Calm down

Take slow breaths.

Show the steps and answer
  1. Breathe in slowly.
  2. Breathe out slowly.
  3. Do it three times.

Answer: I feel calmer.

Did you know?

Smiling can make you feel a little happier, and a deep breath can help your body feel calm.

Why this matters

When we can name our feelings, it is easier to be kind and ask for help.

4. Explore: Feelings faces

Draw four faces: happy, sad, angry and scared. Under each, draw or write something that helps you feel better.

  1. Draw a happy face.
  2. Draw a sad face.
  3. Draw angry and scared faces.
  4. Add helpers.
Think about it: what did you notice?

What did you notice? Different things help different people.

Safety first: Some feelings can be big. If a child feels very sad, scared or unsafe, they should tell a trusted adult such as a parent, a carer or a teacher straight away. Never ask learners to share painful family events.

5. Practise

Say it in a sentence

Use these starters when you talk about the lesson. Say them out loud.

  • I feel ___.
  • I feel happy when ___.
  • When I am sad I can ___.
  • I can tell ___ if I feel scared.

Guided practice

Question 1. Name one feeling.

Any feeling.

Question 2. What face shows happy?

A smile.

Question 3. What can help you feel calm?

Slow breaths.

Independent practice

Level 1: Start

  1. Name one feeling.
  2. What face shows happy?
  3. What can help you feel calm?
  4. Who can you tell if you feel unsafe?
  5. Is it okay to feel angry?

Level 2: Grow

  1. Why do we name feelings?
  2. Why do we not hurt others when angry?
  3. Name two ways to feel calmer.

Level 3: Stretch

  1. Draw a feelings face.
  2. Tell a friend how you feel.
  3. Name a trusted adult.

Answers are in the answer key below. Try first, then check.

6. Apply: Social Studies in everyday life

A friend is sad. What can you do?

Show a sample answer

Say kind words, sit with them or get a teacher.

Another one. Tell a grown-up one time you felt happy.

Show a sample answer

I felt happy when …

7. Common mistakes

Mistake: “Angry feelings are bad.”
Fix: No feeling is bad. We choose safe actions.
Another mistake: “Big children never feel scared.”
Fix: Everyone can feel scared.

8. Lesson summary and revision card

I can…

  • I can name feelings.
  • I can show feelings safely.
  • I can say that all feelings are normal.
  • I can ask a trusted adult for help.

9. Check and master

Answer all 14 questions. You will see feedback after each one.

1. A feeling is how I feel …

2. Happy is a …

3. All feelings are …

4. When angry I should not …

5. A slow breath can help me feel …

6. If I feel unsafe I tell a trusted …

7. A smile can show I am …

8. A friend is sad. I can say kind …

9. A trusted adult helps keep me …

10. Feelings can show on my …

11. Excited means very …

12. Big feelings can be …

Challenge 1. Which is a safe way to show anger?

Challenge 2. Who is a trusted adult?

Your result appears here after you answer every question.

10. Key takeaways

  • We have feelings.
  • All feelings are normal.
  • I can show feelings in safe ways.
  • I can talk to a trusted adult.

11. Next lesson

Next lesson: Similarities and differences among people. Keep going with the next idea in this course.

Exam practice

These questions are written in the style of common school and international primary assessments. Try them on your own, without looking back. Then check your answers in the marking guide. The marks are shown in brackets.

  1. Name two feelings. [2 marks]
  2. Say what you can do when you feel angry. [3 marks]
  3. Name a trusted adult and say why. [3 marks]
  4. Say why all feelings are normal. [2 marks]

Total: 10 marks.

Marking guide and model answers
  1. One each
  2. Safe action [1]; no hurt [1]; clear [1]
  3. Name [1]; role [1]; reason [1]
  4. Everyone has them [1]; clear [1]

Score guide: 9 to 10 = secure. 6 to 8 = nearly there, revise the parts you missed. Under 6 = work through the lesson again with a grown-up.

Printable worksheet

  1. Name one feeling.
  2. What face shows happy?
  3. What can help you feel calm?
  4. Who can you tell if you feel unsafe?
  5. Is it okay to feel angry?
  6. Why do we name feelings?
  7. Why do we not hurt others when angry?
  8. Name two ways to feel calmer.
  9. Draw a feelings face.
  10. Tell a friend how you feel.

Homework

Draw a feelings chart for your family.

Answer key and marking scheme

Question Expected response Marks
1. Name one feeling. Any feeling. 1
2. What face shows happy? A smile. 1
3. What can help you feel calm? Slow breaths. 1
4. Who can you tell if you feel unsafe? A trusted adult. 1
5. Is it okay to feel angry? Yes, but do not hurt others. 1
6. Why do we name feelings? To understand and ask for help. 1
7. Why do we not hurt others when angry? It is not kind or safe. 1
8. Name two ways to feel calmer. Breathe, draw or talk. 1
9. Draw a feelings face. Face. 1
10. Tell a friend how you feel. I feel … 1
Total 10

Independent practice answers. Level 1: 1 Any feeling.; 2 A smile.; 3 Slow breaths.; 4 A trusted adult.; 5 Yes, but do not hurt others.. Level 2: 1 To understand and ask for help.; 2 It is not kind or safe.; 3 Breathe, draw or talk.. Level 3: 1 Face.; 2 I feel …; 3 Own answer..

Quiz answers: 1 B, 2 C, 3 A, 4 B, 5 C, 6 A, 7 B, 8 C, 9 A, 10 B, 11 C, 12 A, Challenge 1 B, Challenge 2 C.

Mastery and remediation

Objective Bronze (Developing) Silver (Proficient) Gold (Advanced)
O1 Name feelings Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O2 Show feelings safely Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O3 Say that all feelings are normal Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O4 Ask a trusted adult for help Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation

Courseversity badge thresholds (overall quiz score): Gold = 90–100%; Silver = 80–89.9%; Bronze = 70–79.9%. A badge is never a full record of progress.

If a learner struggles

  1. Find the misconception: “Angry feelings are bad.” No feeling is bad. We choose safe actions.
  2. Explain another way: use real objects, pictures or actions first, then words.
  3. Show a simpler example: Use face cards. Help your child match the card to a feeling word and say one safe action.
  4. Guided practice: work through one example together and let the learner try the next one.
  5. Reassess: use the quiz again or the worksheet.
  6. Move on when the learner shows Silver-level evidence independently.

For parents and guardians

In this lesson your child learns to name feelings and to ask a trusted adult for help. Please let your child know they can always tell you if they feel worried. You do not need to be an expert to help.

  • Ask “How do you feel today?” every day.
  • Name your own feelings calmly.
  • Teach slow breathing together.
  • Ask “how do you know?” after each answer, and listen.
  • Praise effort, not only right answers. Mistakes are how we learn.
  • Ten to fifteen minutes a day is better than one long session.

Teacher package

1–5. Objectives, prerequisites, materials, preparation, duration

Lesson objectives. Learners will: name feelings; show feelings safely; say that all feelings are normal; ask a trusted adult for help.

Prerequisite knowledge. None. Learners should be able to look, listen and talk about themselves.

Materials. Face cards, paper, crayons. Low-resource options: use chalk or charcoal on a board or wall, drawings in the sand, and objects from the classroom instead of printed materials.

Preparation. Draw five feelings faces on cards.

Suggested duration. 45–60 minutes. It can be split into two shorter sessions.

6–9. Teaching procedure, explanation notes, guided and independent activities

Introduction (5 min). Show five face cards and ask how they feel.

Explanation (10 min). Teach feelings and calming skills.

Guided activity (10 min). Learners draw faces.

Independent activity (10 min). Learners practise breathing.

Assessment and reflection (5 min). Ask each learner to say one thing they learned and how they know it.

Key questions. How do I feel? Who can help?

Teacher explanation notes. Start with a picture, story, map or local example. Then talk about what was seen, then draw and write. Always ask “how do you know?” and invite more than one view. Treat every family, culture and community with respect, and never ask learners to share private information.

10–12. Differentiation, formative assessment, common misconceptions

Support. Use pictures, maps, real objects and short sentences, and let learners work with a partner. Let learners point, show, act or draw instead of writing. Extension. Ask learners to find a new example from their own community and explain how they know.

Formative assessment. Listen to learners read and explain, ask “how do you know?”, and check the independent work.

Misconceptions. “Angry feelings are bad.” No feeling is bad. We choose safe actions.

13–15. Assessment questions, answer keys, marking scheme

Use the quiz, the 10-mark exam practice and the worksheet on this page. All answers and marking guides are in the answer sections above. Re-check every answer before use.

16–19. Remediation, enrichment, homework, teacher reflection

Remediation. Use face cards. Help your child match the card to a feeling word and say one safe action. Enrichment. Find one new example near your home or school, draw or write about it and explain it to someone. Homework. See above.

Teacher reflection. After teaching, record: which ideas learners understood; which misconceptions occurred; which activities worked; which learners need more practice; and what to improve next time.

Sources and standards

This lesson is based on the sources below, and no official endorsement is claimed. Reference starting points: NCSS standards and C3 Framework, Cambridge Primary Humanities and the IB Primary Years Programme. Where a standard code is named, it points to the official framework.

Research used to shape this lesson. Courseversity Social Studies curriculum, Grade 1 Unit 1, topic 5; NCSS C3 Framework, individuals and groups; Cambridge Primary Humanities, people; IB Primary Years Programme, who we are. These sources informed the lesson.

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