You will learn

  • Tell my story in order.
  • Use the words first, then, now.
  • Listen to a friend’s story.
  • Choose what I share.

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Student lesson

The lesson in 60 seconds

  1. I have a personal story.
  2. A story has an order.
  3. I can use first, then and now.
  4. I choose what to share.

Words to know

story
a telling of what happened
first
at the start
then
after that
now
at this time

1. Discover: The baby photo

Aminata brings a photo of herself as a baby. “First I was a baby,” she says. “Then I learned to walk. Now I am in Grade 1 and I can read.” The class claps. “You told your story in order!” says the teacher.

Think: What is the first thing in your story?

2. Understand: My story

Idea 1: A story in order

A story tells what happened. We use the words first, then and now so that the order is clear.

Idea 2: My story

Your personal story can include being a baby, learning to walk, starting school and what you do now. It is yours, and nobody else has the same one.

Idea 3: My choice

You decide what to share. If something is private or makes you sad, you do not have to tell it to the class. You can tell a trusted adult.

Remember: I have my own story, and I choose what to share.

3. Worked examples

Example 1 (I show you): First

Say what happened first.

  1. Think back.
  2. Say first.
  3. Add a picture.

Answer: First I was a baby.

Example 2 (We do it together): Then

Say what happened next.

  1. Think.
  2. Say then.
  3. Add a picture.

Answer: Then I learned to walk.

Example 3 (You try): Now

Say what is true now.

Show the steps and answer
  1. Think.
  2. Say now.
  3. Add a picture.

Answer: Now I am in Grade 1.

Did you know?

People have told life stories for thousands of years, long before there was writing, by speaking and singing.

Why this matters

Telling our story helps us understand ourselves and listen to others.

4. Explore: Three-picture story

Fold a paper into three. Draw yourself as a baby, when you started school, and now. Tell your story to a friend.

  1. Fold the paper.
  2. Draw first.
  3. Draw then and now.
  4. Tell a friend.
Think about it: what did you notice?

What did you notice? I have grown a lot.

Safety first: Remind learners that they choose what to share. Do not ask for private family details. Some children may not have baby photos; drawings are fine.

5. Practise

Say it in a sentence

Use these starters when you talk about the lesson. Say them out loud.

  • First I was ___.
  • Then I ___.
  • Now I ___.
  • I choose to share ___.

Guided practice

Question 1. What word starts a story?

First.

Question 2. What word comes after first?

Then.

Question 3. What word tells about today?

Now.

Independent practice

Level 1: Start

  1. What word starts a story?
  2. What word comes after first?
  3. What word tells about today?
  4. Draw yourself now.
  5. Can you keep some things private?

Level 2: Grow

  1. Why use first, then, now?
  2. Why choose what to share?
  3. Who can you tell a sad story to?

Level 3: Stretch

  1. Draw a three-part story.
  2. Tell it to a friend.
  3. Listen and say one thing about your friend’s story.

Answers are in the answer key below. Try first, then check.

6. Apply: Social Studies in everyday life

A friend does not want to share their baby story. What do you say?

Show a sample answer

That is okay.

Another one. Ask a family member for a story about you when you were small.

Show a sample answer

Share one thing.

7. Common mistakes

Mistake: “Stories must be about big events.”
Fix: Small events count too.
Another mistake: “I must tell everything.”
Fix: I choose what to share.

8. Lesson summary and revision card

I can…

  • I can tell my story in order.
  • I can use the words first, then, now.
  • I can listen to a friend’s story.
  • I can choose what I share.

9. Check and master

Answer all 14 questions. You will see feedback after each one.

1. A story tells what …

2. The word that starts a story is …

3. After first comes …

4. The word for today is …

5. My story is …

6. I choose what to …

7. If something is sad I can tell a trusted …

8. As a baby I could not …

9. A friend’s story I should …

10. Stories were told long before …

11. A three-picture story shows first, then and …

12. A friend does not want to share. I say …

Challenge 1. Which is in the right order?

Challenge 2. Who decides what I share?

Your result appears here after you answer every question.

10. Key takeaways

  • I have a personal story.
  • A story has an order.
  • I can use first, then and now.
  • I choose what to share.

11. Next lesson

Next lesson: Celebrating individuality. Keep going with the next idea in this course.

Exam practice

These questions are written in the style of common school and international primary assessments. Try them on your own, without looking back. Then check your answers in the marking guide. The marks are shown in brackets.

  1. Write first, then, now with one word each. [2 marks]
  2. Tell your story in three sentences. [3 marks]
  3. Why do we choose what to share? [3 marks]
  4. What do you say if a friend does not want to share? [2 marks]

Total: 10 marks.

Marking guide and model answers
  1. Three words [1]; sentence [1]
  2. First [1]; then [1]; now [1]
  3. Private [1]; safe [1]; clear [1]
  4. That is okay [1]; kind [1]

Score guide: 9 to 10 = secure. 6 to 8 = nearly there, revise the parts you missed. Under 6 = work through the lesson again with a grown-up.

Printable worksheet

  1. What word starts a story?
  2. What word comes after first?
  3. What word tells about today?
  4. Draw yourself now.
  5. Can you keep some things private?
  6. Why use first, then, now?
  7. Why choose what to share?
  8. Who can you tell a sad story to?
  9. Draw a three-part story.
  10. Tell it to a friend.

Homework

Ask a family member to tell you one happy memory from when you were small.

Answer key and marking scheme

Question Expected response Marks
1. What word starts a story? First. 1
2. What word comes after first? Then. 1
3. What word tells about today? Now. 1
4. Draw yourself now. Picture. 1
5. Can you keep some things private? Yes. 1
6. Why use first, then, now? To keep order. 1
7. Why choose what to share? Some things are private. 1
8. Who can you tell a sad story to? A trusted adult. 1
9. Draw a three-part story. Three pictures. 1
10. Tell it to a friend. Spoken story. 1
Total 10

Independent practice answers. Level 1: 1 First.; 2 Then.; 3 Now.; 4 Picture.; 5 Yes.. Level 2: 1 To keep order.; 2 Some things are private.; 3 A trusted adult.. Level 3: 1 Three pictures.; 2 Spoken story.; 3 One sentence..

Quiz answers: 1 B, 2 C, 3 A, 4 B, 5 C, 6 A, 7 B, 8 C, 9 A, 10 B, 11 C, 12 A, Challenge 1 B, Challenge 2 C.

Mastery and remediation

Objective Bronze (Developing) Silver (Proficient) Gold (Advanced)
O1 Tell my story in order Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O2 Use the words first, then, now Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O3 Listen to a friend’s story Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O4 Choose what I share Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation

Courseversity badge thresholds (overall quiz score): Gold = 90–100%; Silver = 80–89.9%; Bronze = 70–79.9%. A badge is never a full record of progress.

If a learner struggles

  1. Find the misconception: “Stories must be about big events.” Small events count too.
  2. Explain another way: use real objects, pictures or actions first, then words.
  3. Show a simpler example: Use three pictures. Point to each and say first, then, now. Let your child repeat.
  4. Guided practice: work through one example together and let the learner try the next one.
  5. Reassess: use the quiz again or the worksheet.
  6. Move on when the learner shows Silver-level evidence independently.

For parents and guardians

In this lesson your child tells a short personal story. Please talk to your child about what they would like to share. You do not need to be an expert to help.

  • Share a happy memory.
  • Look at old photos if you have them.
  • Respect what your child chooses to share.
  • Ask “how do you know?” after each answer, and listen.
  • Praise effort, not only right answers. Mistakes are how we learn.
  • Ten to fifteen minutes a day is better than one long session.

Teacher package

1–5. Objectives, prerequisites, materials, preparation, duration

Lesson objectives. Learners will: tell my story in order; use the words first, then, now; listen to a friend’s story; choose what I share.

Prerequisite knowledge. Grade 1 ideas: I am special and I can say my name, my likes and my feelings.

Materials. Paper, crayons. Low-resource options: use chalk or charcoal on a board or wall, drawings in the sand, and objects from the classroom instead of printed materials.

Preparation. Fold paper samples.

Suggested duration. 45–60 minutes. It can be split into two shorter sessions.

6–9. Teaching procedure, explanation notes, guided and independent activities

Introduction (5 min). Show a baby photo and tell a teacher story with first, then, now.

Explanation (10 min). Teach story order.

Guided activity (10 min). Learners draw three pictures.

Independent activity (10 min). Learners tell kindly.

Assessment and reflection (5 min). Ask each learner to say one thing they learned and how they know it.

Key questions. What happened first, then, now? What can I share?

Teacher explanation notes. Start with a picture, story, map or local example. Then talk about what was seen, then draw and write. Always ask “how do you know?” and invite more than one view. Treat every family, culture and community with respect, and never ask learners to share private information.

10–12. Differentiation, formative assessment, common misconceptions

Support. Use pictures, maps, real objects and short sentences, and let learners work with a partner. Let learners point, show, act or draw instead of writing. Extension. Ask learners to find a new example from their own community and explain how they know.

Formative assessment. Listen to learners read and explain, ask “how do you know?”, and check the independent work.

Misconceptions. “Stories must be about big events.” Small events count too.

13–15. Assessment questions, answer keys, marking scheme

Use the quiz, the 10-mark exam practice and the worksheet on this page. All answers and marking guides are in the answer sections above. Re-check every answer before use.

16–19. Remediation, enrichment, homework, teacher reflection

Remediation. Use three pictures. Point to each and say first, then, now. Let your child repeat. Enrichment. Find one new example near your home or school, draw or write about it and explain it to someone. Homework. See above.

Teacher reflection. After teaching, record: which ideas learners understood; which misconceptions occurred; which activities worked; which learners need more practice; and what to improve next time.

Sources and standards

This lesson is based on the sources below, and no official endorsement is claimed. Reference starting points: NCSS standards and C3 Framework, Cambridge Primary Humanities and the IB Primary Years Programme. Where a standard code is named, it points to the official framework.

Research used to shape this lesson. Courseversity Social Studies curriculum, Grade 1 Unit 1, topic 9; NCSS C3 Framework, individuals and groups; Cambridge Primary Humanities, people; IB Primary Years Programme, who we are. These sources informed the lesson.

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