You will learn

  • Notice when something is unclear.
  • Ask a clarifying question.
  • Use polite question words.
  • Repeat the answer to check.

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Student lesson

The lesson in 60 seconds

  1. If you do not understand, ask.
  2. Use who, what, where, when, why and how.
  3. Be polite: Excuse me, could you…
  4. Repeat what you understood.

Words to know

clarify
to make something clear
question
a sentence that asks something
polite
showing good manners
confirm
to check that something is correct

1. Discover: Where do we meet?

Ayo hears: Meet near the big tree after lunch. He is not sure which tree. He says, Excuse me, Ms. Bello, do you mean the mango tree by the gate? She says, Yes, the mango tree by the gate. Ayo repeats it to be sure.

Think: Why was Ayo wise to ask?

2. Understand: How to clarify

Idea 1: Notice what is unclear

If a message could mean two things, or you missed a word, you need to clarify it.

Idea 2: Ask politely

Start with Excuse me or Could you please. A question ends with a question mark and uses who, what, where, when, why or how. Being polite keeps the talk friendly.

Idea 3: Check the answer

Repeat what you heard to confirm: So we meet at the mango tree by the gate.

Remember: When a message is unclear, ask a polite question and repeat the answer to confirm.

3. Worked examples

Example 1 (I show you): Spot the problem

What was unclear to Ayo?

  1. Which tree?

Answer: which big tree

Example 2 (We do it together): Ask

What question did Ayo ask?

  1. He named a possible tree.

Answer: Do you mean the mango tree by the gate?

Example 3 (You try): Confirm

How did Ayo check the answer?

Show the steps and answer
  1. He said it again.

Answer: he repeated the place

Did you know?

Good listeners ask questions, because asking shows that they care about getting it right.

Why this matters

Clarifying questions prevent mistakes and show respect for the speaker.

4. Explore: Question practice

Practise asking to clarify.

  1. Ask a friend to give a vague instruction.
  2. Ask a polite question.
  3. Listen to the answer.
  4. Repeat it back.
Think about it: what did you notice?

You can ask good clarifying questions.

5. Practise

Say it in a sentence

Use these starters when you talk about the lesson. Say them out loud.

  • Excuse me, do you mean ___?
  • Could you please say ___ again?
  • Where/when/what ___?
  • So you said ___.

Guided practice

Question 1. To make something clear is to ___.

clarify

Question 2. A sentence that asks something is a ___.

question

Question 3. Showing good manners is being ___.

polite

Independent practice

Level 1: Start

  1. To make something clear is to ___.
  2. A sentence that asks something is a ___.
  3. Showing good manners is being ___.
  4. To check something is correct is to ___.
  5. Ayo asks about the ___ tree.

Level 2: Grow

  1. Write a polite way to start a question.
  2. Ask where the meeting place is.
  3. Repeat the place from the story.

Level 3: Stretch

  1. Is it rude to ask for clarity?
  2. Should you guess every time?
  3. Does a question end with a question mark?

Answers are in the answer key below. Try first, then check.

6. Apply: English in everyday life

Ask a family member a clarifying question about a plan.

Show a sample answer

a question

Another one. Practise asking one clarifying question at home today.

Show a sample answer

a completed task

7. Common mistakes

Mistake: Rushing without checking.
Fix: Slow down and check your work.
Another mistake: Skipping the worked example.
Fix: Study the example first, then try.

8. Lesson summary and revision card

I can…

  • I can notice when something is unclear.
  • I can ask a clarifying question.
  • I can use polite question words.
  • I can repeat the answer to check.

9. Check and master

Answer all 14 questions. You will see feedback after each one.

1. To clarify is to make something ___.

2. A question ends with a ___.

3. Which opening is polite?

4. To confirm is to check it is ___.

5. Which word starts a question about a place?

6. What was unclear to Ayo?

7. Which tree did Ms. Bello mean?

8. Who did Ayo ask?

9. After the answer, Ayo ___.

10. Why ask a question when confused?

11. Which is a clarifying question?

12. Which is the best way to ask?

Challenge 1. Someone says: Bring the book. Which question clarifies?

Challenge 2. Which is the best confirming sentence?

Your result appears here after you answer every question.

10. Key takeaways

  • If you do not understand, ask.
  • Use who, what, where, when, why and how.
  • Be polite: Excuse me, could you…
  • Repeat what you understood.

11. Next lesson

Next lesson: Explaining information. Keep going with the next idea in this course.

Exam practice

These questions are written in the style of common school and international primary assessments. Try them on your own, without looking back. Then check your answers in the marking guide. The marks are shown in brackets.

  1. What does clarify mean? [1 mark]
  2. Write one polite way to start a clarifying question. [1 mark]
  3. Why did Ayo repeat the answer? [1 mark]
  4. Write a clarifying question about a meeting time. [2 marks]
  5. Explain how to clarify an unclear message. [3 marks]

Total: 8 marks.

Marking guide and model answers
  1. to make something clear [1]
  2. Excuse me / Could you please [1]
  3. to confirm he understood [1]
  4. question word or polite start [1]; question mark [1]
  5. notice what is unclear [1]; ask a polite question [1]; repeat the answer to confirm [1]

Score guide: 7 to 8 = secure. 5 to 6 = nearly there, revise the parts you missed. Under 5 = work through the lesson again with a grown-up.

Printable worksheet

  1. To make something clear is to ___.
  2. A sentence that asks something is a ___.
  3. Showing good manners is being ___.
  4. To check something is correct is to ___.
  5. Ayo asks about the ___ tree.
  6. Write a polite way to start a question.
  7. Ask where the meeting place is.
  8. Repeat the place from the story.
  9. Is it rude to ask for clarity?
  10. Should you guess every time?

Homework

Practise asking one clarifying question at home today.

Answer key and marking scheme

Question Expected response Marks
1. To make something clear is to ___. clarify 1
2. A sentence that asks something is a ___. question 1
3. Showing good manners is being ___. polite 1
4. To check something is correct is to ___. confirm 1
5. Ayo asks about the ___ tree. mango 1
6. Write a polite way to start a question. Excuse me, 1
7. Ask where the meeting place is. Where do we meet? 1
8. Repeat the place from the story. the mango tree by the gate 1
9. Is it rude to ask for clarity? no 1
10. Should you guess every time? no 1
Total 10

Independent practice answers. Level 1: 1 clarify; 2 question; 3 polite; 4 confirm; 5 mango. Level 2: 1 Excuse me,; 2 Where do we meet?; 3 the mango tree by the gate. Level 3: 1 no; 2 no; 3 yes.

Quiz answers: 1 B, 2 C, 3 A, 4 B, 5 C, 6 A, 7 B, 8 C, 9 A, 10 B, 11 C, 12 A, Challenge 1 B, Challenge 2 C.

Mastery and remediation

Objective Bronze (Developing) Silver (Proficient) Gold (Advanced)
O1 Notice when something is unclear Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O2 Ask a clarifying question Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O3 Use polite question words Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation
O4 Repeat the answer to check Shows this with help from an adult or a picture Does this independently and explains how they know Explains it clearly and uses it in a new situation

Courseversity badge thresholds (overall quiz score): Gold = 90–100%; Silver = 80–89.9%; Bronze = 70–79.9%. A badge is never a full record of progress.

If a learner struggles

  1. Find the misconception: Rushing without checking. Slow down and check your work.
  2. Explain another way: use real objects, pictures or actions first, then words.
  3. Show a simpler example: Re-read the examples slowly and use the sentence frames.
  4. Guided practice: work through one example together and let the learner try the next one.
  5. Reassess: use the quiz again or the worksheet.
  6. Move on when the learner shows Silver-level evidence independently.

For parents and guardians

In this lesson your child practises a key Grade 3 English skill with clear examples and a quiz. You do not need to be an expert to help.

  • Listen while your child explains the idea.
  • Ask for one new example.
  • Praise effort and careful work.
  • Ask “how do you know?” after each answer, and listen.
  • Praise effort, not only right answers. Mistakes are how we learn.
  • Ten to fifteen minutes a day is better than one long session.

Teacher package

1–5. Objectives, prerequisites, materials, preparation, duration

Lesson objectives. Learners will: notice when something is unclear; ask a clarifying question; use polite question words; repeat the answer to check.

Prerequisite knowledge. Identifying important details.

Materials. Chart paper or board, pencils, picture or word cards, a reading book if available. Low-resource options: use chalk or charcoal on a board or wall, drawings in the sand, and objects from the classroom instead of printed materials.

Preparation. Write the key words and examples on the board or on cards before the lesson.

Suggested duration. 45–60 minutes. It can be split into two shorter sessions.

6–9. Teaching procedure, explanation notes, guided and independent activities

Introduction (5 min). Introduce the idea with the opening example.

Explanation (10 min). Teach the key words.

Guided activity (10 min). Practise together.

Independent activity (10 min). Check understanding with the quiz.

Assessment and reflection (5 min). Ask each learner to say one thing they learned and how they know it.

Key questions. What is the key idea? Can I give my own example?

Teacher explanation notes. Move from the spoken word to pictures and then to print. Read aloud often, point to the words, and let learners hear and say before they read and write.

10–12. Differentiation, formative assessment, common misconceptions

Support. Use the sentence frames and work with a partner. Extension. Create a harder example of your own.

Formative assessment. Listen to learners read and explain, ask “how do you know?”, and check the independent work.

Misconceptions. Rushing without checking. Slow down and check your work.

13–15. Assessment questions, answer keys, marking scheme

Use the quiz, the 8-mark exam practice and the worksheet on this page. All answers and marking guides are in the answer sections above. Re-check every answer before use.

16–19. Remediation, enrichment, homework, teacher reflection

Remediation. Re-read the examples slowly and use the sentence frames. Enrichment. Make up your own example and teach it to someone at home. Homework. See above.

Teacher reflection. After teaching, record: which ideas learners understood; which misconceptions occurred; which activities worked; which learners need more practice; and what to improve next time.

Sources and standards

This lesson is based on the sources below, and no official endorsement is claimed. Reference starting points: Common Core State Standards for English Language Arts, Cambridge Primary and the IB Primary Years Programme. Where a standard code is named, it points to the official framework.

Official standards for this topic area. Common Core State Standards for English Language Arts (official site): Grade 3 » Speaking & Listening. These pages list the standards that cover this topic area; read them alongside the lesson.

Research used to shape this lesson. Common Core SL.3.1c (ask questions to check understanding of information presented, stay on topic, and link their comments to the remarks of others) and SL.3.3; Cambridge Primary English Stage 3 (speaking and listening). These sources informed the lesson.

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